My friends today you are to read
a message that has the power to change
your life. Not because these words are
so eloquently written, or that the message
is so well thought out or intellectual,
but because it is the truth. A truth
so profound it is almost simple, but
master it, and you will change your life.
Driving to work today I found myself
struggling to overcome temptation.
We all go through periods in our life
where we can be overwhelmed by temptation;
sometimes to the point we question our
own faith. As I drove down the highway,
I was bombarded by billboards of scantily
clad women selling everything from gambling
to beer. You cannot turn on a television
or pick up a newspaper, or for that matter
engage in a conversation without temptation
creeping in. It crouches at your door,
it desires to have you, but you must
master it.
You must learn to control
your thoughts. Opening
your mind to the barrage
of sinful messages and behavior, you
will find yourself holding your loved
ones hostage to your own inequities.
If you desire to experience the
love God intended for you, the days of
looking at your family through the dark
filter of a sinful mind are over. This
spirit filled message of hope and joy,
which if accepted, can provide a life
of peace and happiness, even in a fallen
world.
What is love? At
first it seems simple, right? Or maybe
not so simple depending
on your situation. For some it may depend
on the day,
week or even their mood to define this
term. For others,
it has more of a materialistic implication,
such as loving one's work or wealth.
Some find the term love
contradictory. Hollywood
tells us love is meeting someone and
having a sexual
relationship. Whatever your definition
of love is, it usually is a combination
of feelings, emotions, and/or attraction.
However, these definitions of love are
contradictory to God's word. Love
is not a commitment or romantic
encounter, but a vision of
what the world was before sin entered
in. Love for all its stigma and heartache,
is a glimpse at life without sin. To
truly love anything or anyone, we must
remove the sin that influences our life.
To love someone is the ability to see
people for what we are. That’s right,
I said for what we are, not what
they are. I know it’s confusing to think about
at first, but read over it a few times
and it will begin to make sense. The
removal of sin, cleansing of the mind,
and purifying of the spirit through righteous
living will free your mind. If you
truly want to love those in your life,
you have to overcome sin in your
life. That way you see your wife and
kids for what they are, God's gift to
you, not a burden. When you watch Hollywood’s
depiction of love, you are robbing your
family of God’s true
gift. With time, you begin to see your
wife as less then perfect and your
children as falling short. Your parents
are not understanding enough, and your
grandchildren are part of a generation
of misfits.
The influence of sin robs you and your family of love. It makes you skeptical,
overbearing, jealous, and critical. Perhaps, your wife who seemed so perfect
when you first met, now seems like a different woman. Remove
sin from your life and you will remove the dark filter clouding
your judgement. Your eyes will be opened to the truth, and the truth will set
you free. Peace and a pure heart will enable you to finally experience the true
blessing of love as originally intended.